Hmm...maybe parts of the fog are lifting. Certainly sounds like some of the shine is being taken off his new life. Rarely are their lives as satisfactory as they would project. But remember, just notice these things and file them away. Don't analyze too much. He may be coming out or it may be a phase.
BUT, I think you are getting the hang of putting the focus on yourself now. Excellent job with the new activities and home improvement. Good for YOU and shows him that life goes on. Detachment takes a while. Keep your head up.
I heart what HIH said. Let your H come to you. Don't backslide!!!
