I am totally confused, she wants to be together but she doesn't, she wants to be a family but she doesn't, she wants to be with me but she doesn't????? What is it going to take for her to make up her mind??
Here's the thing.....she won't. And, why are you still waiting for "her" to make up "her" mind? You have not accepted what the reality is. Yes, you still love her...but it doesn't "change" her and that love doesn't change the reality of the stitch.
You could "wait" for her to make a decision for 20 years and she'd still be giving you BS. I doubt very, very seriously that she will be able to find the person she use to resemble. Yes, it's sad. Very sad, but what you need to do is stop allowing her problems to be YOUR problems. You have the power to stop allowing her to suck you back into her drama queen soap opera BS. All you have to do is accept the facts and move forward in a life apart from hers. Your choice, completely!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
