It's over and done with. Only glitches were my attorney being late and two buttons popping off my blouse right as we went in to see the judge. XH commented "I don't think flashing the judge is gonna help your case, we have a lady judge..." So I was sworn in this afternoon with my right hand up, and my left hand holding my blouse closed over the girls. But really, here wasn't anything to argue, the judge asked a couple of questions, confirming this is what we wanted and basic facts about the marriage, and that was it.
A couple of teary-eyed moments today but no major emotional upheaval. Maybe it hasn't sunk in yet, or maybe I'm just already over it. I'm really not sure which.
