Originally Posted By: Amg
It's scary. It hurts. But it's so. Does that mean I'm no longer welcome on this board?


Amg if I gave you this impression I am sorry.

If what I said offended you I am sorry.

I am not making a judgement on you or your decision.

It is not my place.

You post here. We respond with support, and feedback from our knowledge and experience.

If you are making this choice for you then you don't need me to tell it's right or wrong, or to defend it to me.

I am not trying to convince you to stand or to leave.

Originally Posted By: Amg
WHY SHOULD THE MLCer get away with this?


They are not entitled to anything and neither are you.

Our M doesn't entitle us to anything. We are not entitled to anything from our spouses.

So you see it is YOUR choice what to do.

So leave for your reasons...

My only goal was to make sure you know what those are.

You came here because you wanted to save your M right?

Well it looks like they may not happen?

So that is the only reason you are here and that is your definition of success.

You know what MLC is.

Your H may or may not ever snap out of it.

So find your peace.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am