I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME WAY. Sometimes this touchy, feely stuff makes me want to climb the wall . . . .BUT, it is certainly more effective in detachment than being ready to punch the SOB out.
I could ( & would love to ) tell both H and OW exactly what they and the family thinks of them. Would it matter? No. Would I feel better? Yes, but only temporarily, and in the end look like a raving biotch from he11.
So, for the moment, I keep my peace. When all is said and done, I may find the perfect moment to lay it all out for him, or, lay him out. Rant away. I'm happy I'm not the only insensitive whacko here.
