The culture around divorce for men is different than women I think. Maybe that is why I feel like my M failures mean that my kids are now more hers than mine, even though she's the one looking for the "freedom" of divorce.
Why not lawyer up and fight for at least 50-50 split with your kids?
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
