Doc, I know what you mean. I don't seem to be going backwards at this time, but slowly forward, as long as I keep working on connection, partnership, and communication.
My W has calmed down a great deal this year and is much easier to live with. She is still temperamental (and probably will always be to some extent). She is asking for partnership, and wants me to tell her if something is bothering me. She also wants me to watch my words and tone (she thinks I need to manage certain stressors better). She also wants more affection.
I have to make the transition to a partner mindset (it's been awhile).
She puts time into household cleaning, and has managed the planning of our trips. She keeps talking about job hunting but hasn't yet begun.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
