I will listen and get information from her and not talk much tonight. We'll see what she says
Great advice from yourself to yourself.
I know it's easier to DB if your are still living with your partner than away from her/him.
She seems to react positively when you let her talk. Listen and respond by mirroring so she gets that you understand. When you don't understand, ask her to explain. She was probably getting this kind of "understanding" response from her online guy.
Walk in there confident and happy happy. Smile at her. If she really wants to move in with you, pat yourself on the back for getting her home. Agree but tell her what you need- specifics. Then you will get her respect. She sounds a little lost. Figure out fantastic things to do together, what ever you both liked to do before maybe.
I have almost been a WAW in my 30s. This would have done it for me.
