Okay, well I've thought about this the last few days...
I do not want to Divorce her, not because I want to torture her, but I FEEL like she's not in a good frame of mind. Selfishly I have thought of anything to slow this whole process down to buy more time. You appeal to my WANTS, but is it it the RIGHT thing to do?
If I do this, isn't it going to hurt the whole "Healing" process?