Strange thing happened tonight, she had a go at me for being happy and humming??
I got in early from work and was cooking a meal for me and the kids, she then started having a go about me trying too hard and it was getting on her nerves me humming and acting happy
I said I was feeling happy,I have addressed issues at work, was taking meds and hadn't had a drink for weeks and felt good, she said it was not normal and it was getting to her
I told her it was not about her it was about me, I'm trying to make me a better person for me, she then said well it was never about her!!! I tried to explain what I meant but she just went into 1 about how I've hurt her and I can't change, I just apologised and said I will, she then said something about staying together, then changed the subject, I didn't press her any further.
Not sure what to do now, my changes are getting to her but the kids love it, well I think they do, I do alot more with them and they seem happy, think I should just carry on for me and them, she will have to deal with it!!!