If you threaten him in order to get him to back off of S with OW what can he do to cover up his illegal activity?
Do you have PROOF right NOW that he's been violating the law?
You have to remember that threatening someone ALSo gives them WARNING where they are vulnerable.
If your WH can clean that up before he gets caught then you have no leverage anymore ANd he will be vendictive aboutt his.
If you simply report him he as no warning and doens't have a chance to clean things up first.
That's the issue between threatening and simply reporting him outright... time to prepare
If you have PROOF that he can't deny NOW then he can't clean things up and you can threaten him all you like...
But if you don't have proof yet and he can clean up his act before atuhorities GET proof then I woudln't threaten...
YOu said your lawyer was attempting to do this and I am wondering what is the lawyer's objective?
Is he expecting to get you 100% custody by doing this or something?
It sounds like you dont' have much of a support network there.. You really need to get a hold of a social worker to talk about all of this and what your S is being exposed to as well...
You need more supoprt outside this forum... This does sound like social services should be involved here.. Your WH does NOT sound fit to parent a child at all right now and the SW may be able to make a case for you
