For a long time, I have read countless stories about WA's and my gut feeling (a judgement, I know. Fair or not, we all make them)the fact has always been that the WA , unfortunately, my W included, was a coward by naturecommitted cowardly acts .
So your guys wives had huge issues in the marriage (and you guys either had some clue or were scared to speak up) and you call your wives cowardly. This is strategically a huge error to see this way.
Just because it's not how you would handle it doesn't make it "cowardly." Time to be a leader not a whiner.
First time I completely disagree.
Cowardly
1. not brave: showing a lack of physical or moral courage, or too scared to do a particular thing
Lack of moral courage to identify the issues in M. Letting it dwindle for years until there is no desire left to even discuss it. Too scared to face the own fears or to seek moral clarity to own feelings.
2. cruel and spineless: showing meanness or cruelty to people who are weaker or unable to defend themselves and fear of those who are equal or stronger
Dropping a bomb on unexpecting LBS followed by a premeditated mean streak and continuous resentment blaming the entire world's misery on LBS. Hitting with words which are carefully selected to do the most emotional damage. Following up with hurtful actions. Knowing well that there is no defence for LBS after ILYBINILWU.
Playing a victim in fear for stronger LBS while manipulating what's left to gain tangling the "friendship" carrot to soften the enemy.
