yes you are right. That was when I finally dropped the rope. And I wasnt trying to show that to him which in my mind, played a big role. I wasnt acting as if and he felt it.
He said he had decided a few months back he wanted to come home but he couldnt confront her so he was trying to get her to say the words. Pretty much what he did with me in some ways. Of course the year that followed was him trying to untangle himself from the mess he created. He said me finding the emails etc speeded up the process.
NO Ali, he hasnt talked about what he found to this woman, or what he felt missing in the end. Just general comments about big mistakes.
Kat, I was thinking the same way too. They finally open up (my kids). STill it hurts to see them hurting. xx
