So H sends me this huge email detailing why having OW around S5 would be such a great idea...as long as I don't make it a big deal.
Please.
I don't want an email trail of my responses, but I also don't want to talk to him. He's threatening to bring OW to S's birthday party next week - I said if so, I will split the party - he can have one with half of S's friends, I will have another.
The no paramour does not work now that he has seen this woman for a year - it only works up to six months.
I spoke with a lawyer yesterday. Our legal separation agreement says that S can stay at H's house 50% of the time but H has not insisted on this.
The only way to change the agreement is to file for D and fight for more custody!
I'm scared if I make waves, H will claim his legal right to take S to his place 50% of the time.
The L says that FAA regulations are that H cannot fly legally while taking anti-anxiety meds. H knows this and has gotten a prescription, off his medical record so that FAA wont find out. First thing L wants to do is let both the FAA and the law know that he is flying illegally. H is going to flip a lid at me. It will start WW3.
I'm scared. Really scared.
Scared to file for D. Scared of his rage. Scared of him taking S. Scared of OW being around (apparently I can't stop him and he is too defiant to care how I feel). I'm scared of how much money this costs (I'm an at home mom working odd jobs, few job skills).
Just had to let you all know. Any advice or support welcome.
