Some one here...on DB told you to give them a divorce or dissolution hearing? Usually the adivce is to let the WAS do all the legal lifting, the LBS gets the best pitbull/shark lawyer they can but basically sits on the ball eating up time on the clock.
Wish I had seen that. : )
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...but it will help me to leave our marriage knowing I did everything I could to protect myself and show her I will not be a doormat.
Faith,
That seems to be far more about you than your marriage. Not pulling it out to an assh0le, or argumentative.
...knowing you did everything you could to salvage the relationship/marriage... I don't know.
Thats it.
Not intentionally looking to twist the knife. Not trying to brow beat you into my way of thinking or live vicariously through you.
I wish you the best of luck, maybe you are right about leading and self respect, no path is going to be easy for you right now, and I do not envy you for it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
