I used to think I wanted someone that had not been divorced but either single or widowed. Now I don't dismiss the divorced because you can learn a lot through the process, though I won't say everyone does.

As far as dating, it took me a year and a half after the divorce to start going out and even then it wasn't a lot. Having 4 kids can and does take a lot of my time. I want to make sure they are doing well but I have also learned that I can't always put myself on the back burner.

Everyone, just like every situation is different. You will know when it starts to feel right.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory