I kind of get the same thing. Why don't the kids want to be with me and my fiance (yes the OW) because I am still their dad and she is just wonderful? Ex has never had a fit of anger with them but I believe until he can stop thinking about himself first, he will never see the damage he has done.

Luckily we have been able to be at least civil and have been able to figure out some stuff for the kids.

I hope you can see yourselves as a family. it does bother my ex to no end that I can do that, but really, that is what he did to us.

kat


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