Just remember that Dan and SandyCay's XH are both donkeys.
Miserable Men!
That's right, they are.
I know your not feeling well Bobbi but I got to swing some wood at ya girlie!
I know I'm behind the 8 ball because I dont' get on everyday.
What Dan does is his business and what you do is yours. Wether it's money, women, cows, or you having hot monkey sex with a 25 year old.
That's what you need to tell him. Oh, he loooooves keeping you on the hook and (every other woman) too. Dan can't be quiet with himself and always needs drama in his life,,,, wether it's business or pleasure.... he loves drama..... Get your drama from Glee
Your to super foxy for that loser donkey! Can you imagine if your daughter or BF was married to someone like Dan. Time to be objective about him and what he does and most of all his character. He is what he is..... nothing more nothing less but not a man worthy of you.
It doesn't matter anymore.... it shouldn't.
In my situation, my EXH hates me so much but can't explain why.... but he needs to do that in order to JUSTIFY what he has done ..... very sad.
It's not about me... and the one truth my EXH told me was "you deserve better than me". I didn't believe him at the time but I deserve way more.
On a side note: Did you say cattle friend wanted you to get together or call or coffee without his wife? I'm to lazy to look back, but be careful.....
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too