# 72 - Could be better, could be worse...

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K.. wow, so how do you answer, or do you get H to answer, to tell them why he left? H insists now every time its mentioned that he 'lost his mind' and was not in a fit state to make decisions, any, neverlone good ones as he 'didnt know what he was doing'. I suppose, "diminshed responsibility" could be an explanation for the way he behaved, like in murder cases? Or.. what explanation does he give??

I agree and know you didnt cheat on H. He had left the house and you and was having a new relationship (albeit lying about it). You werent even spending time together or 'dating' as I was with H that summer and you gave him ultimatums, which he ignored. So you took a chance on love. You were heading for divorce. Ironically, he kind of decided to come back the moment you got back from America didnt he... he wanted to pick you up from the airport (he had no clue that you had visited a man there back then and has he since confirmed, that he had no clue? i.e: that isnt why he decided he wanted back). Wierd timing hey.

Lets talk soon hey