Yes, living in separate places. Up until 7 weeks ago his where-abouts were always maddeningly the same- sitting on the couch staring at the TV with his laptop in his lap on Craig's List searching for more power tools. Certainly had plenty of chance to at least have an internet affair. Doesn't seem to be his style but, do I really know this person??? I can't tell you his where-abouts when no working now. He is frequently texting me and it seems to be about the same... It's been a very long time since I have seen him do anything he enjoys. He has had chronic neck/back pain and has been very depressed. Going to the gym has always been very important in his life. Since not being able to do that, he seems like a different person. He says his feelings of guilt are because he can't honor the commitment we made to each other. He 'doesn't feel like a man'. He danced around it but on the tip of his tongue was the 'I care about you but I am not in love with you anymore'. He's so sorry etc. etc. then would stand/sit there hugging me crying that he can't 'try' our relationship anymore, he has tried everything already... I know how all that must sound, he found someone else. Maybe he has, I just don't know. I guess I should assume he is with someone else. As much as he does contact me, not sure when he is spending time with her... Thanks again for your interest. I feel even more confused after being on this board. Some of the advice is the exact opposite of the coach. On a positive note. I bought a motorcycle and am loving it! Place a check mark in the column of GAL and a hobby. He clearly is curious about this...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
