Everyone here posts based upon their experience and what they think they did or did not do right.
To me it seems that you are rushing forward to a divorce.
In your real life, it is more than likely that friends and family are encouraging you toward this goal, I mean she is cheating on you, disrespecting you and hurting you, what friend or family member is going to want you to stick around for that. We as people seldom want to see our friends and family hurt.
I do not see many people asking you to slow down, I see people glad handing you for sticking to a boundary. And...you know what? Good for you for being able to.
You came to Divorce Busting, not to learn just one thing...bounadries. But many things.
Including: If something ISN'T working change it. It is a pretty basic idea of DBing.
I am suggesting to put the brakes on, not the gas pedal.
A little kindness.
Boundaries do work, but not by themselves.
Protect yourself, find yourself.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 09/22/1002:58 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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