Well, since it appears I have the attention of a at least a few people... I could really use some advice on another aspect. We work in the same hospital and most people there don't know. While we have both stopped wearing our rings, everyone still assumes we are together and he has no plans to tell anyone we aren't. I have had to tell even the person who comes to clean the house (obviously my things aren't there but he wanted to let them 'assume' whatever they want...) The cleaner is even entwined with the hospital as his parnter works there and is one of the biggest gossips. So, I told them, asking for privacy at this time as it has been hard enough for me to go back to work. So... my question is, if he is so certain, why isn't he telling anyone? I think he is very ashamed. He is held in very high regard there. Do I tell people? How do I handle this? It pisses me off that he wants out but can't own up to it.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
