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And the "handyman"--yeah--the one my stepmother is in love with. And apparently, I guess, he likes me.

is this the same guy mentioned a few posts back who's married?

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But he told me things, and he kissed me. I let it happen I guess.

what did he tell you? why did you let that happen?

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My head for many other reasons is spinning. H just brought his lawyer another $2000. We have spent already 12000 in L fees. I was sick about this yesterday!!

you can brain dump here. people spend ridiculous amounts of $ on legal fees. 12k is not much .. i've heard of people spending 10x more.

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And the fact that I have pretty much cheated on my H. I have PRIDED myself on having been able to look him dead in the eye and tell him I haven't cheated on him....

i understand how you feel. i met someone for coffee but i don't consider it 'cheating'. no physical contact .. other than a "hi, nice to meet you" obligatory handshake. difference with me is .. the guy wasn't physically attractive so nothing was going to happen. yes, i'm shallow. smile

why did you do it? what made you put your pride aside?

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