I guess the question I have is why should I spend a bunch of energy on trying to find out if he is having an affair? What does it change? If he is with someone else, it seems he would be more likely to eventually find the faults in this person than he ever would of the ideal fantasy he has in his mind.
You need to know what your up against.
As for doing errands and favors for him- Stop b/c it will show him what life will be like wothout you around. You need to make him feel he's losing you.
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