Thanks Lance - I understand what you are saying.

Kiss - Thank you for sharing with me. We are in a tough tough spot to say the least.

Talked with H last night and was completely relieved to find out that he was totally open and honest with the psychologist on Monday. He told me that he told him that he cheated on me and that he has a problem with desiring attention from other women in order to make himself feel better. (in addition to all of his other issues, of course)

It makes me feel so much better that he didn't hide anything. He also said to me, "you told me to be honest and I was - I can't get the help I need if I am not and end up getting answers to the wrong questions"

So, I have a call in to the psychologist and am waiting to hear back for my appointment.

Much better day today...and I slept well last night.

Last edited by JenniferA; 09/22/10 02:01 PM.

Me-40 H-41
M: 10 yrs T: 12
S9/D5
ILYBINILWY - Separated: 01/06
Reconciled: 08/06
H depressed again: 02/10
Separated again: 9/17/10