And it is SO difficult to smile and pretend that I'm completely oblivious.But again, I know that confronting or bringing the A out into the open will do NOTHING to make the situation any better and won't change a thing.
Yes it is difficult Alb..I found that during my very difficult times I needed to keep reminding myself WHY I was doing this. As hard as it may be, you need to realize that you are doing something.....
You are acting "as if"....
You are allowing your H the room he needs....
You are balancing the changing dynamics in your sitch....
You are allowing YOUR actions to do YOUR talking.....
Alb - there will come a time soon, when you will realize just how much YOU are really in control.
Chin up...your doing really well.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
