And what is the answer - what can I do to change that? What should be my immediate actions apart from GAL? At the moment i am mainly working on shifting my attitude so that is not so apparent how much i am hurting - no more chasing around after her like a puppy dog, no more shows of affection wghen i get little in return, being pleasant and conversational but not going out of my way to chase after her.
Short on time this morning, but you have stated good things in your quote. Regarding showing respect.....I believe a man needs to call his W out whenever she talks down to him or treats him anyway that shows disrespect. It has to be constant, b/c she's actually gotten into a bad habit of this behavior of disrespect. Do not reward her for bad behavior. Rewards come in many different ways, so think about that.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
