Stop, drop and roll. It sounds as if you are on fire to bring resolution to the business thing, and you may burn yourself out in the process. Lance is right, consider yourself FIRST. Better bankruptcy than you acquiring all the debt, endangering your home, and letting him trapse off free into the future. I know people who have had to declare bankruptcy, and although it goes against many of our grains, it's not the end of the world we are afraid of.
I know where you are coming from. You just want it to all end, and have a moment of pure peace. As I said before, I can't imagine having to deal with my husband through this and own a business with him ON TOP of everything else. You have been strong and mature. Don't do anything that lets him off the hook and leaves you blowing in the wind.
