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[ericmsant2]

Bobby

You are spinning right now, which is normal. As hard as this is you need to really focus on keeping your eyes, heart and mind on YOU.

She would not tell me what was on her mind.

Don’t push her Bobby. Your D will open up to you when she is ready to. The more you push the more she may hold back. Similar to your W, your D will open up to you when she is ready.

I must admit that today I feel pretty down

We all have these days Bobby. It what YOU do with them that is the key to YOUR life, YOUR future. You can sit in a pit of despair, loneness and fear OR you can stand up and face them. YOU may not see it Bobby, BUT you are doing this, you are moving forward day by day.

I hate this separation and the unknown

Bobby – do you know if the sun will come up tomorrow? Or do you know if YOUR W may decide to snap out of this? NO – you don’t…so stop worrying about things that YOU have no control over. So tell me what DO You have control over?

I have known my wife for 30 years and I cannot believe this is happening.

Yep…I said the same buddy – BUT it is happening – so what is Bobby going to do about it? Man up dude – you can do this chit.

I cannot believe she has no feelings.

Hey…can you lend me your mind reading cap? Seriously dude – you have no f*cking idea what she is thinking. You don’t. You may think you do but really ya don’t. So how’s about you leave the mind reading cap in the closet and get back to living YOUR life. Get back to figuring out what Bobby wants and NEEDS for Bobby.

The worst part is that I do not know if she will ever come back.

She may or she may not Bobby – no one here can tell you if she will. Here is a better question for YOU….what kind of man do YOU think she should come back to? Do you think she should come back to a man that cannot except the natural changes in life? Do you think she will come back to a man that she does not respect? What kind of man does Bobby really want to be?

I continue to pray and hope the love of my life comes back

How much are YOU willing to endure Bobby for the “love of your life” – how much? Can you sit around and wait for her to figure her chit out for….say….10 years? Do you love her enough to wait forever? How much Bobby? Can you begin to live your life KNOWING….that she will come back at some point in the future?

Look dude – this chit is not easy. For me it has been the hardest thing that I have ever faced…and still face…so…you love her – right? THEN….


Like I said earlier…man the f*ck up and become the MAN that YOU want to be. The door is open, the road is open, YOU get to pave it and shape it buddy…shape the road and let HER find her way home. You my friend, just work on YOU.

Chin up!

God Bless,
Eric