How should I handle MLC direct lying?

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As an added side note, I don't think my H thinks it's at all possible that I'll walk away. His MLC bubble doesn't allow those types of thoughts. That's almost the saddest part...he has NO IDEA how far I've already gone. Though I think he may be starting to get a hint now that I have withdrawn even more. I really have no desire to spend time w him anyway. The person I loved no longer exists. My IC really doesn't agree with the "smile and nod" strategy of DBing as it doesn't allow me to be honest, share my feelings about relationship, etc. But at this point I have no desire to do those things anyway--it goes no where. So maybe DBing has somehow 'allowed' him to come this far not realizing that things aren't OK, but I feel I've sufficiently warned him. About 1.5 months ago I said "I don't want you to be blindsided by anything." He said "OH, I wouldn't be". Well his actions show that that is not true, but whatever. I've warned him and won't feel guilty about my feelings. Okay maybe I will be some guilt, but I'm not going to let it get the best of me.

The next month is certainly going to be interesting.