Thanks Twink. I certainly respect what you're saying. And reserve the right to change my mind 20 times today. BUT, I no longer see any way I'd want to be with him again. He has disrespected me and our marriage (and himself) so many times over, and his 8 MONTHS ON NON ACTION, of any kind, to move away from me or toward me, seems like to final straw for me.
I appreciate your input. Thank you.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years