Bobby, My heart goes out to you for I know what you speak. I still have those days, but they are fewer and farther between now.
It doesn't mean that I love my H any less, only that I've accepted that this journey he is on will not be over quickly and there are no guarantees.
Keep doing what you are doing, and try to live your best life everyday.
Your D will open up when she is ready as she has to process what has happened along with the usual teenage angst. This affects the whole family. Just keep being there for the kids the best you can and shield them as much as you can. Be their rock.
