On two ends of the world.. #2

[ris]

Probably because both of you must go through the process. A better question, and I think this is what you are getting at, is where is the "I"?

Exactly, you would like to know what he is thinking, but there is no talk of "I" in his communications.

This is exactly what I mean. But why there is no "I"?

Mind reading. Not that it will probably do any good, but you could tell him that you are agreeing only because you don't want to be married to somebody who doesn't want to be married to you. Why should only one of you fight for this marriage?

I like that.

I'm kind of interested in how you know this about his buddy if communication is as sparse as what you have typed here.

I know that straight from the source, I'm friends on FB with the said buddy. He put the whole thing there. H didn't comment, but buddy mentioned talking to H while divulging about the breakup.