On two ends of the world.. #2

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if you don't have any issues with that we can start tomorrow."

Why all the "we"??

Probably because both of you must go through the process. A better question, and I think this is what you are getting at, is where is the "I"?

I have so many questions I want to ask him. Like why he decided not to try to work on it. I would really like to hear an answer.

Exactly, you would like to know what he is thinking, but there is no talk of "I" in his communications.

I kind of feel like this is a test, like many times before. A test to see if I will fight for our R or just give up. Like he'd say he doesn't care and if I then say "I know you don't care" he would be upset that I really think

Mind reading. Not that it will probably do any good, but you could tell him that you are agreeing only because you don't want to be married to somebody who doesn't want to be married to you. Why should only one of you fight for this marriage?

Oh and on a separate note, his best buddy just broke up with his girlfriend because he found out she was cheating. So I'm pretty sure that the atmosphere there is not woman-friendly

I'm kind of interested in how you know this about his buddy if communication is as sparse as what you have typed here.

The rest is more mind reading.