This morning I wrote him back "Ok". On afterthought I wanted to say something to the effect of "Ok, your choice" but I had sent it already. He answered an hour later and said:
"ok, for our situation we should file an uncontested divorce since we have no joint property or children and have never actually lived together.
if you don't have any issues with that we can start tomorrow."
Why all the "we"?? It's him, not me... Yes, I'm bitter. I don't think he has a L, he probably just talked to legal dept and that's what they told him. You can do a DIY uncontested divorce and that's what he seems to want.
I have so many questions I want to ask him. Like why he decided not to try to work on it. I would really like to hear an answer.
Also, I kind of feel like this is a test, like many times before. A test to see if I will fight for our R or just give up. Like he'd say he doesn't care and if I then say "I know you don't care" he would be upset that I really think so...
Oh and on a separate note, his best buddy just broke up with his girlfriend because he found out she was cheating. So I'm pretty sure that the atmosphere there is not woman-friendly .
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
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