We Fall Down, We Get Up

[AliSuddenly]

I can see what you are saying.. so perhaps that is a valid point? That you dont want him having woman around your kids, confusing them, if its not going to be a committed/marriage type R? I think though you didnt have a stipulation like this in your divorce, is that right? (like Erin Woods did!).

I still think all this texting with him is unhealthy for you. Can you discourage the texts? Either ask him to stop doing it and phone if its important instead (or email) or just start ignoring the less important ones and dont respond, to teach him that he WONT get a response that way? You cant have any kind of proper, meaningful discussion by text message about such important matters as who gets to spend time with your children and what that means etc.

Rooting for you Bobbi, as always