(((Mila))) Go and protect yourself and D to the best extent that you can.
My H has also backed off on the things he said he would do concerning the house.
I do believe it's expectations that get us into trouble. I know that I have thought that my H still must have feelings for me. I thought he would still think and react like the old H. I was wrong. I don't know this person anymore. He's not the same.
You have it extra hard trying to deal with an alien in business. The MLCer lives in a fantasy world most of the time where reality is avoided at all costs. He can't see the forest through the trees because the fog has clouded his judgment.
Your H cares for nobody but himself at this time. Do what you have to make sure you're not responsible for any more debt that he incurs because of his selfishness and unwillingness to face reality.
Mila you've done all that you can. There are circumstances where you just can't hang in there and try to outlast the MLC without sacrificing yourself in ways that it would make it very hard to recover from.
