((((Luv)))) I am SO sorry this is happening to your kids and that you have to watch them go through this. WTF. Is his company making cutbacks or something?? Really, another state? Is it at least next to ours? His priorities are WAY screwed up and I don't even know how you try to explain this to your kids- and that he sends this in a TEXT? I know there must have once been a kind, strong, loving man under there or you'd never have married him and stayed this long. The alien has come out with his full colors, though (like mine), and I guess we'll never understand the reasons they do what they do. Yours just keeps inflicting new heights of pain, though. I am so sorry. You don't deserve this, you deserve a break from him and his crap.

I am sending good, strong thoughts down south to you tonight Luv. Do your crying, then when you're ready, pick yourself up and dust yourself off and continue to be the strong woman you've been for those kids. Even if it doesn't feel 100% true right now on the inside, the brave but honest face you have on for them and your love is getting them through this- I have to believe that our mom strength and love can overcome a LOT. Not that it should have to, but... trust that just by your consistent presence in their lives, it will eventually help soothe the hurt he's causing them.

((((Luv))))


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.