Here it is pasted from my other thread

(We had a disagreement tonight. It was a minor thing he had not told me about. I know this is an area of sensitivity for me. I feel that given the loss of trust It's important for me to be informed about things. He was annoyed to begin with and said he would never please me but when I explained properly he was fine. It was a good example of how we will have to reach new understanding in the future, even as friends and how he thinks I am too difficult to please. The challenge is to continue speaking my truth but in a positive way that does not show I have unrealistic expectations. the positive of it all is that he didn't hang up on me, ignore me or shout at me like he would have in the height of his MLC)