Please blgp - don't assume because he looks awful he is not having an affair. Do you know how many people here say the same thing and their spouse is IN an affair!

STOP buying him gifts...do not be his friend...be cordial but you aren't his buddy anymore - sorry. That is what he gives up when he decides he wants to leave. Continue to be upbeat and happy - without him. Please listen to the advice here.

Luv

M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10