She showed you love is not the same as making a decision to love. That's like putting on a dress for the evening, and then taking it off later. choosing to love is waking up every morning and saying, "I love John, and I am happy to love John." It's not phony and it doesn't go away when the next cute guy crosses her path. I won't believe any of it until she books Retrouvaille herself, goes and does the weekend fully immersed in it.. Then,I'll think it's possible she's changed. But no, not a quicky stroking of the leg.