One last thing to add eeyore_no_more regarding investigating if there is someone else. He looks AWFUL. We work in the same building so I see him at least a couple times a week. He really looks terrible. He has lost weight, he almost shaved his head, didn't shave his beard at all for a while, now does so occasionally. I would think that if he found someone he would be doing what he could to look good for her... He is also clearly depressed. Many people have commented about his abnormal behavior. He is usually very outgoing and talks with everyone. He very easily pretends everything is fine which is why I think I was blindsided... He hasn't done that as effectively lately. It actually makes me quite sad to see him this way. He appears to be really suffering, he has stated weeks ago how hard this is for him... Don't think it proves anything but again, haven't seen any evidence of someone else.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
