Originally Posted By: Truegritter
You can get busy building walls to protect yourself...

OR

Get busy healing yourself, and building yourself

...instead of walls.


Can't heal if I continue to rip the stitches out of my own wound. Working on setting her free and building my life up is only way to go now.

Not quite sure what you mean by Wall? I saw an attorney to set up best way forward and was advised mediation...no contact means no more dealing with same old behaviors that don't work. If I see something different, maybe I'll react a different way.