Finding high school sweethearts on facebook seems to be a reoccuring nightmare here on this forum. Another tool they use is classmates.com. Had I never given my (now ex) wife her laptop several years ago I would still be married I think.
In my case her sweetheart and soulmate also told her he was going to marry her and then ditched her at graduation and college because he knocked up some other girl and had to marry her.
That was back in 1974. 1974!!! 36 years ago! And this dirtbag is still married and has five kids and lives four states over.
For the life of me I just dont get it. We give our lives to these women and they throw us away at the prospect of rekindling an immature flame so old it comes packed in mothballs. What the hell is wrong with these people?
Her own EA went on for a long time. And I never really found out about it until after my divorce. You OTOH have a chance to stop this affair. I hope you succeed.
And as others have said, do not believe the hurtfull things she tells you. She will rewrite your history together to justify her nonsense and her cheating. Most if not all of it may not be true at all.
Oh and for the love of God do NOT move out. That would be the worst thing to do. Stand your ground. Let her know you will fight for the marriage and that her affair is unacceptable to you and disrepectful.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
