Even if you knew exactly what was happening NOW in all of it's reality, it still doesn't give you answers about the future and where NOW is heading.
I understand what you see as my tendency. However, rest assured that it is more of a curiosity as opposed to a prediction.
It hasn't changed my plans. It hasn't changed my mindset. I've said before that until she is literally asking me to talk about us, I'm not altering anything. And even then, THAT conversation wouldn't change my course either.
IF the affair ends, AND she wants that conversation, AND a No-Contact letter is sent; AND transparency is established: AND we remain in separate residences for a while and date a few times,I don't intend to change anything.
I get it, Steady.
I just saw something odd occur. It coincidentally lined up with my best interaction to date and the status from last week. It hasn't changed anything. It was just "notable" as it struck me funny.
The FB Request was ludicrous. And I was quite astonished that "she/they" would actually try that.