Man, those must be very special dogs! But, I see your POV. If she's disrespecting you (and she is), then she doesn't come to your house or visit anything therein.
Continuing NC and not allowing her in your home, or visit the pets, are about all you have at this point.
LOL. They're special to me. They are either the gateway of the old life to her or an unfortunate way to get something from the house(It's been used by her before).
She is disrespecting me and I've had enough. I'm not acting angry or vindictive, but enough is enough.
My Boundary now is to protect ME from her lies and cunning "same old" tactics. I've more than extended an olive branch and peaceful communication about our financial situation. She took it upon herself to break the branch and wipe her feet on the doormat.
Does this mean I've opened a can of warfare up and going to attack and get even? NO WAY. I'm just done. Until she can approach me with an ounce of respect, there is no further reason to tolerate crap behavior. Does this mean I'm going to be an A-Hole when/if we see each other? Nope. Treat her with kindness in a confident way.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
Has she asked for any of her things that was left behind? Has seeing the dogs been the top of her list?
Nope, she hasn't asked for anything. Dogs have not been top of her list, she hasn't even asked about the one that was sick since Labor Day. Now all of a sudden after the crap pulled by her last week, she asks to see them. Makes me think she's just trying to find a way in...in to/for what? Unknown. (OR maybe just random crazy behavior?)
