So I was paying the bi-weekly bills and trying to find out why a car payment did not register and came across a charge that the W made. She bought a perfume for $80. On top of that she has been wearing form fitting tank tops and she does not have the body for it. Is it me or is she shopping herself to try to find someone else? Should I confront her about this or just let it go? She knows I usually check this stuff, is she doing it to see if I notice? Is she trying to get a reaction out of me? Should I react? Every once in a while she will wear nice, conservative outfit that is sexy yet not revealing and I will let her know she looks nice. She says thanks but that is about it, of course I really do not expect a reaction or answer either. Any suggestions out there?