BobbiJo ~ It started out good, went downhill from there as I am about to explain. (((Hugs)))
Journal ~
Reading through the D papers H presented me with was a joke... I sent a copy to my L who strongly advised me not to sign them...
Among the fact that he doesn't want any money from his hands to come into mine, he wants full custody of our oldest son, no time-share for me and unlimited access for him with our youngest son...
He keeps the car and his full retirement...
I get zero alimony, my health and dental benefits expire within 30 days of signing...
No child support nor back support...
Oh please tell me where to sign that crap.
The last few days have been a bit stressful, you see H bought our 7 year old a cell phone - Yes I said 7 year old...Well 7 year old has decided when life is not treating him fairly (ie: Mommy is punishing him for not listening, doing not so hot in school etc...) he can call and tell Daddy how mean Mommy is.
I let H know I was taking the phone, it wasn't going to be used in that manner and that son could call him right before bed to say good night.
H wasn't happy with that - Tough.
So H emails me today wanting to know if I received an email from his lawyer (I did and I ignored it), I didn't reply...2 Hours later he emails me at work...I sent him a text telling him not to email personnal business at my place of work, it was unacceptable...
He got upset, wanted to know why I haven't signed the papers - AS IF!
So, the old me came out and it turned into a knock-down drag out...Him calling me names, me biting my tongue, him with his threats, me calling OW ugly names...Him saying he wouldn't come see little man if I didn't sign, me accusing him of brain-washing our oldest who BTW hasn't spoken to me in over a month....
He actually uttered the following - Greed is a sin, you can't be a Pastor if you try to take anything from me in the D.
He needs the D to work on changes within him, he needs the D so he can become more involved with his Church and not have "this" hanging over his head...
He has been forgiven, to which I did respond with, forgiveness starts with repenting, repenting isn't asking for forgiveness and then going home and banging your mistress.
He asked for a sign, didn't get it so God wants him to D me...
Back and forth, nothing being accomplished...
OW is making waves about the fact that we are still married so once again he has to cover his butt to appease her...
WTH is wrong with these people?
Sorry so long, I need this for my timeline.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
