Not mind reading but noticing the possible coincidence.
Yes it is. It's trying to guess something you don't have access to. And even if you're right, how do you know how that will play out as things unfold?
The more you engage in this kind of thinking the more you reinforce your mind to continue doing it.
When you see it happen do your best to ignore it and let it drift away just like it drifted in.
We'll see means there is no meaning put on the event at all.
This is reality - she changed her facebook status. She had "all good things must fall...." last week. I read them.
That's it. No meaning. End.
None of this --> I wonder what it means. Is it me she talking about and our R? Maybe it's her and OM falling? Maybe it's about something she lost? Maybe about her job? Maybe a comment meant for a friend of hers? Maybe...
It's hard not to follow the thought stream because of our compulsion to know what is happening NOW so we can guess the future. Even if you knew exactly what was happening NOW in all of it's reality, it still doesn't give you answers about the future and where NOW is heading.
Cut the head off the snake.
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