Blindsided, Just served with papers!

[TimeHeals]

Thanks TH, I will remember the poison line,

The Zen of Cary Grant:

Remember this (good detachment required), if she gets mad when you callenge her, be amused by it

W: "Why would you say that?"
DSH: "I was just checking. A guy's gotta be careful, you know? And I can tell you didn't now. I'm a cop, ya know?". Just all smiles

And if you use something like the poison line, be sure to compliment her cooking in front of your kids

Think of playing with your cat and a piece of string

Again, timing, knowing your audience, etc is important, but the most important thing... playful, confident, and unflapable, and you don't cave into her demands. Cary Grant wouldn't do that